Really?

so i want to say that some people really need to think and revaluate their living situations. dont think im looking down b/c im somewhat on the ground to but why would you bring another life into the world in a bad situation. you should have never married the low life from the beginning but you must have thought society would look at you in a better way. well you thought wrong. many people want to look at this whole teen mom show like its an eyesore for america but all these broken homes isnt helping. dont look down on some teenager who got knocked up when right around the corner there is some 20 something or 30 something doing the same thing. i managed to make it without a kid and no its not hard. one thing is to keep your freaking legs close unless you can manage a kid by yourself. if you know what you may get into, by all means go for it sister or brother. that's a risk that you will understand that can be taken. don't get me wrong i don't think single parent hood is horrible but for some people they could have avoided it at all cost. if you think this blog is about you then most likely its not. i would rather tell you to your face then let you read it online. to end this on a light note, i do give two thumbs up for all my single parent friends that are doing the right thing and being two people. i know it isn't hard at all times (my mom is a single parent) but then end is gonna be awesome. your child will understand when they get old enough to see who really sacrificed. i know that i cannot understand from the parent end and really hope to never experience it that way but just remember your real friends and family will be there for you. real people will want to be around you and your kid(s). real friends will want to make plans and give you enough time to find a babysitter. real friends will understand when you have to cancel b/c your kid is sick.