learn to be alone first

who wants to be alone? no one! everyone wants to have someone to be with but to have that special person, you first have to learn how to be alone. i know you're thinking that's crazy but if you are not comfortable at doing things along then how will u know what you like? i like to take myself shopping, have long walks by the river and just read of book. me, myself, and i are a perfect trio. even on the walk i let my dog be the fourth wheel because she cannot talk, so therefore she won't kill the mood. don't get me wrong i like the company of others, well not so many at one time. i think having someone of the opposite sex is great to have but how can they make you happy if you don't know what makes you happy. to me you need that alone time to collect your thoughts and just relax. if you find yourself always needing a buddy, pal or toy to keep you company then just think what are you doing. you are using a crutch and its not healthy. no i am not a doctor and can only speak for myself but it works for me. now being alone isn't always fun nor easy but just learning what you like will be good for you and whoever you meet. i'm going to end thing because i want to enjoy the rest of my alone time before my last class starts (and play on facebook)